And because of that, they would get sick and suffer — from settling scores,
from arguing, from being nervous. I didn’t understand why they did it.
Do you know why? Because I saw that what drove them wasn’t even the
material aspect, but something else entirely. Imagine a man on a date with
a woman; everything is wonderful, they are in a restaurant, and suddenly,
as an example, the waiter brings a bill that is $10 too high — the waiter
made a mistake. And here is this man, joyful, sitting in the restaurant
with his woman; they have memories together, maybe it’s an anniversary,
one year since they started dating. They’ve been in this restaurant for two
hours and plan to go for a walk in the park afterward, then to the theater.
Now imagine: suddenly, because of some $10, this man starts settling
scores with the waiter, creating tension. His woman will feel this tension.
The man himself will sink into this tension as he starts arguing with the
waiter. Because the waiter, of course, isn’t going to apologize like a well-
bred person and fix the situation; he’ll strike back to protect his own ego
and say something in response. He’ll say, “It’s your fault, you distracted me,
that’s why I miscalculated.” People — especially those on a low frequency
— always love to shift the blame back onto you immediately. It’s always
illogical and unreasonable, and if you start demanding your rights, it
makes you even more nervous. The bottom line is: is it really worth all that?
When a man is on a date, they’ve spent two hours in happiness, holding
hands and dreaming of going to the park; all they have to do is wait for the
bill and walk out. So the bill arrives. Fine, there’s a discrepancy — they
overcharged you by $10. If you close your eyes to it, the wave you were
on continues; you remain on your frequency of happiness and peace.
But as soon as you try to correct the situation and ask why you were
miscalculated, you instantly fall from heaven into hell. You enter the
“world of justice,” where good fights evil. And yes, maybe you are right
in this situation, but you begin to exist in the underworld, playing a role
and serving Baphomet — the Spirit of Justice. You start punishing that
inattentive, scattered sinner. The sinner, in turn, is rude to you, and
you start reprimanding him even more, calling for the senior manager
to get him fired. Sure, you get your way and you win. The waiter will be