Alexandr Korol

I describe them as one thing, but there are various categories. Some dark people might provoke you in such a way that they might apologize to you, saying, “Sorry for being angry or bad recently, I had a psychosis”, and then in the same day or the next, during a casual conversation, if you recommend a movie to them, they might turn it into something negative. They might say, “You’re suggesting a movie, do you think I can’t choose a movie myself? Do you think I have bad taste?” You respond, “No, I don’t think that.” And they reply, “Oh, so you don’t think about me at all?” And you say, “Why are you starting this?” They respond, “Oh, so you hate me?” Imagine, this is how they will behave. I’ve just shown you this trap. And since you’ve experienced this a thousand times, if you have an acquaintance who behaves this way, how should you react? Immediately say, “Oh, sorry, I’m getting a call.” And then exit the chat if you’re texting. Or if it’s a physical conversation, immediately run to the store to buy something. This way, the person won’t enter an agitated psychotic state, and you’ll escape their trap. It’s all very interesting how it works.

Question: How can one resist this force and escape from it when I see how severe alcoholism has affected the men in my family across several generations on both sides, and the psychological problems faced by the women who have struggled with them all their lives? But no one realizes the full extent of what is happening to them. I moved away from them a long time ago, but I feel how strongly it impacts me and my life. I feel absolute helplessness and confusion about how to change it. Every contact with the family is difficult for me, and it gets harder the further I am from them.

You understand, you wrote about generations. Don’t forget, we are all here for development. And if we try to view everything positively, even the horrors and nightmares in the world, we need to remember that this already creates a crack in the darkness. This crack in the darkness means that we are acknowledging and remembering that everything is created by God: both dark and light, and that all of it is for the greater good and for development. There is nothing unjust; everything is accounted for, interconnected, and deserved. Some people simply go through such stages in life. Some are born into such families intentionally, and some face these challenges due to past events. But this does not mean one should give up. If you can already reflect on this and question how to deal with it, then you are already one step closer to resolving the issue. Maybe not physically. Maybe not in the way you envision. Perhaps the task is not to help