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[Alexandr Korol]

No one is restricting you. Not your husband, not your wife, not your parents, not some God, not some system. You are the creator of your life. And if you want to work with kangaroos in Australia, why aren’t you there yet?” She would straight up clear out any psychological barriers that you might have, all the things that you blame for not taking action or not doing something, she would clear all of it and just tell you, you feel like there’s just you and that’s it. All your worries and burdens just disappear, they fade into the background. And she speaks with you in this way, asking you what you want, what’s holding you back, what’s stopping you from doing something. You say: “I’ve always dreamed of riding horses.” She would respond: “Well then, go tomorrow and ride horses.” And you answer: “Well, you see, I have this and that, and I have a renovation going on.” And she says: “What does the renovation have to do with anything? Go. Who is stopping you?” And she has this way of freeing people, you know, when someone has completely lost themselves, drowned in daily life, or when someone has potential but is afraid to unlock it — she makes it feel like there are no obstacles. It’s like, for example, you’re a child, and you say that your parents dream of you becoming a judge, but you tell Valentina that your soul aches and you want to be an artist. She will tell you: “Be an artist. And if your parents like judges, let them go work as judges. But you should be an artist if that’s what you want.” And she has this kind of message. But again, understand the right moment. She behaves like this because she plays this role, and only those people who need to hear it can randomly appear in her life, and she will tell them. So, through her, God speaks to people and only performs this particular task. But if you never meet her, she will never tell you something like that, and therefore, it’s not meant for you to hear it from her. She only says it to those who truly need to hear it and who will not have any issues because of it, so to speak. She kind of pulls people out of the mud, the ones who happen to appear in her life at certain moments. That’s what I’ve noticed.

What else did I notice? If we talk about Big Alexander, he’s still an equalizer, which was clear back in 2010, when he told me that I was great, and after that, I was super happy, confident. But when it all gets to an extreme, he tells me: “You’re nobody. If you die now, nobody will even remember you.