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[Alexandr Korol]

Let me give another example, because you really like the topic of relationships. For me, it’s easier to use this example because everyone talks about it, everyone thinks about it, and your focus is on it. Meanwhile, I’m not in a relationship right now, so it’s easier for me to use it as an example, so you don’t think it’s about me. So, let’s say I found a girl and started a relationship with her. I’m just an ordinary guy. I don’t know when I found her, in what world I was at that time. And what kind of person I was out of the four personalities. What cycle was I in: morning, day, evening, or night, you understand? So she appeared, and we started our relationship. Let’s assume she appeared when I was in the underworld; there is such a world. It sounds grand, but in reality, it’s one of the moods that everyone has been through and still goes through. So, let’s say I was weak, had many problems, some illnesses, drinking, smoking, being lazy. And suddenly, I found a girl who’s pretty much the same as me, maybe a bit messy. Then, let’s say, six months or a year later, for example, if this were my situation, my heart suddenly turns on. I want to get into sports, to healthy living, I want to work more, not stay at home. But the girl, she hasn’t switched. She’s still the same, stuck in that underworld, and I’ve entered a new world. And we, for this reason, just... don’t find common ground, and we don’t understand why. She seems like she’s not on my wavelength, and I’m not on hers. But I didn’t do anything, and she didn’t do anything. It’s just nature. The season changed, and that’s all. As they say, “summer is over, the leaves have fallen, autumn has come” – this is the same thing. And the most interesting thing is what? What if you’re deeply rooted in your relationships, and if you’re strongly attached to your work, then when autumn comes, for example, it shakes you up, and your whole perspective on your girlfriend and work changes, and you start seeing it all through darkness? Well, it’s the opposite example. Your work and your girlfriend were fine when you were in a positive, light season, and suddenly, the season of darkness begins, and you start viewing your work and your girlfriend in a gloomy way. And people who quickly react to this, they quit their jobs, they break up with their girlfriend, because autumn has arrived. Then, when winter comes, they go completely downhill. And then after that, spring and summer come again, and the person returns to their normal state and starts to miss that girl, that job, and wonders how they lost it all. That’s one way the story goes. It’s very interesting. And this is how the world is arranged.