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Posted: Sun Sep 14, 2025 10:39 am
by Alexandr Korol
Therefore you must be very careful, keep this distance, and let it remain. And each time, once every half a year, when you suddenly remember the feeling of love again, remember this girl, you can write to her: “Hi, how are you? Listen to this song.” And that is all, that is enough. And this is the magic in this magical world. But as soon as you want immediately to build a relationship and have this feeling of possession, that you want to take her for yourself — that is bad. And if you even succeed, that is it, she is yours — immediately all the feelings, everything disappears, all the magic is gone. It is as though even when you find her and already understand that she is yours, then when you go out of the house to walk, to ride a bicycle, or to walk with a camera, you will no longer feel the magic of that freedom, that as though there are countless worlds open to you, and maybe now you will fall in love with someone. It is as though you no longer have such faith and feelings. Why? Because someone is already waiting for you at home, and you feel this anchor. And so many people who lost the magical world in this way and felt that anchor when they found someone could not explain what was happening to them, and they destroyed those relationships for no reason, even though everything was perfect, only so that they could once again feel themselves independent, free. And it seems that on the one hand you want love and family, but at the same time as soon as you allow it, everything goes out, because it is as though you lose that freedom. You lose the feeling of uncertainty and freedom — and in this is the secret of the magical world. And it is the same with housing. On the one hand, a person dreams of finding some place of his own physically: an apartment, a house, a neighborhood, a city, and to settle. But a person cannot understand, and therefore he is often given the experience again and again, so that someday the time will come when he suddenly understands that his greatest happiness was when he was searching for a home, not when he found it. This is described very well in the film “Peaceful Warrior.” And in the book “Wa of Peaceful Warrior,” and in the film “Peaceful Warrior,” it is all about this. There it is shown very well how a boy lives in a completely different world: cruel, emotionless, judgmental, material. And how that Socrates, the teacher, shows him that everything is different — that is what all of this is about. It turns out that when you have