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[Alexandr Korol]

Their families will grow stronger, and everything that was negative will
flip and turn into something positive. But if I only show and discuss
the dark sides of everything, then everyone will look at everything from
a dark perspective.
So, what is the goal now? What is the real point of what I am touching upon?
It feels as if the essence is this: next time, if someone... and you should take
note of this, putting yourself in my shoes, taking an example from me.
But I see it like this: if someone — it doesn’t matter who, a stranger or someone
close, in my circle or not — starts discussing who is cheating on whom, or
who is burying whom, or who is deceiving whom, I will immediately cut that
conversation short. I’ll do it to avoid opening that door, to not even know
that such things happen. In my world, this doesn’t exist; I don’t want to know
it. And if someone wants to discuss a certain person with me, I will say:
“What are the pluses? Look how handsome he is, look what a gift he gave
you a year ago.” It’s as if this is how it must be done. And I realize that... you
see, for this, you don’t need a magic wand, you don’t need a philosopher’s
stone, and you don’t need any “place of power.” It seems like it’s just a play
of thoughts, words, and phrasing — just a way of structuring everything
in your head — but it completely changes the space of your life, your life
itself, and you. It doesn’t sound that supernatural or globally significant,
but it is vital. This is a direct secret, a unique secret, a mystery, a life hack —
it’s truly “wow.” You must see the positive sides and tell everyone only about
the positive sides. Even if they start telling you about a negative side, if you
begin to dive into it and argue — you’ve already lost. You shouldn’t even listen
to the false, negative things they tell you; they want to drag you in there.
The point is that right now, many people are living in what we might call
“negative bubbles,” in the minus. From their dimension, they see me in
a negative light, they see my country negatively, and they perceive people
negatively. They want to tell you all about it — not to harm you, but simply
to share what they are living through. It’s natural for all of us to share what
we see and feel. I understand them; I am the same way. But they don’t know
they are “infected,” so to speak. If they share this with their loved ones, with
me, or with you, then we will become as miserable as they are. It should be
the other way around: they should shut up and start listening to other people