Alexandr Korol

it’s specifically about starting with those close to you. If you have children,
husbands, or wives, start with them; if not, start with your parents. Start
looking only for the pluses in them, only the positive. What does this person
give you that is positive? In what way is this person good? What are their
good sides? Start there. You need to train yourself so that later, even with
strangers, your focus automatically switches to the positive and constructive
sides first, rather than the negative. How much longer can you live
in this negativity?